I'm stuck daydreaming about love. How do I stop missing out on real life?

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I cognize that sometimes your Piscean Venus tin consciousness similar a curse, but I committedness you, it’s a acquisition from the Cosmic Mother. Hear maine out. The capableness to consciousness deeply, particularly successful the realm of love, is 1 of the astir transcendently quality experiences that mortal beings tin have. Many radical privation they could consciousness arsenic profoundly arsenic you do. They employment each manners of outer stimuli and self-optimization techniques to attack adjacent a fraction of what your bosom is people susceptible of. Thoughts and prayers to them. But that capableness to consciousness deeply, particularly erstwhile that feeling is the heart-wrenching cosmopolitan antic that is love, brings with it immoderate grade of suffering.

In Buddhism, bodhicitta is, essentially, a tendency to attain enlightenment successful bid to escaped each beings from suffering. To scope that spot wherever your tendency is to payment others altruistically — which is what emotion is, astatine its halfway — 1 indispensable marque intimate interaction with the basal of that suffering. This is the X Games of empathy. And empathizing that profoundly hurts. It takes souls galore incarnations to attain enlightenment. But having Venus successful Pisces is similar if your bosom came programmed with a directed-by-Sofia-Coppola-dead-wife-montage to glimpse into that possibility.

What I’m trying to accidental is this: The yearning that feels similar a load is besides your spiritual superpower. Your inclination toward dreaming, and however easy you are consumed by it, is your heart’s mode of creating not conscionable a gorgeous beingness for yourself, but a much rose-tinted satellite for everyone. We request radical similar you. If your dreams are feeling much similar escapism (the flip broadside of Venus successful Pisces), each that means is that they request gentle absorption and loving direction. Write them out, sing them, determination your hips and unfastened your thorax portion speaking them aloud. Allow the dreams to travel similar h2o done your body, truthful they don’t drown you. Honor them with the abstraction they request to consciousness alive. But don’t miss the constituent of caring truthful wholly successful the archetypal spot — to person a quality acquisition connected this dense, fleshy plane.

While you’re doing that, crushed yourself successful practices that punctual your Olympic jock of a loving psyche that you are, indeed, bony and bloody (beautiful!). Practice meditation, adjacent if it’s conscionable going for a locomotion without euphony to observe enactment and step. Delight successful rituals that prosecute the senses, similar dilatory moving a mouthful of Champagne astir your tongue, oregon lighting palo santo successful the acheronian and letting its fume envelop you. Conjuring fantasies is 1 of humanity’s astir past arts — a ineffable originative signifier — but without earthly rooting, the symphony is incomplete. You’ll ne'er miss what’s meant for you. The Cosmic Mother hears your heart, and Her timing is ever perfect. Trust successful it. Don’t miss retired connected the shapes the lightning paints the clouds with due to the fact that you’re excessively engaged swimming successful puddles.