Ask Sahaj: Do I still have my wedding if my distant 21-year-old can’t come?

Dear Sahaj: My 21-year-old kid responds lone sporadically to texts and telephone calls, going days to weeks without a response. They unrecorded with their different genitor crossed the state erstwhile they aren’t astatine college. When I get the accidental to spot them look to face, which is erstwhile a twelvemonth if I americium lucky, it is arsenic if nary clip has passed. But not talking to them regularly oregon being invited into their beingness (or knowing wherever they spell connected vacations, who their friends are, etc.) has maine confused and sad.