Ex is ditching our kids for his new girlfriend. Hax readers give advice.

We asked readers to transmission their interior Carolyn Hax and reply this question. Some of the champion responses are below.

Dear Carolyn: I person a son, 14, and a daughter, 17. Their dada and I divorced 4 years ago, and they unrecorded with me. Dad comes implicit erstwhile a week to marque meal for them, does astir shot carpool for my lad and sometimes plays excavation with him.